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Friday, January 15, 2016

Nanny

When my mom is in Ireland she’s one happy lady! Yes shes sad and misses us BUT she gets to spend real quality time with her mother.  She enjoys taking care of her…giving her weekly pedicures, helping her pick clothes, taking her grocery shopping, to get her hair done, old-people social gatherings…Bernie loves it al! And to see the excitement from my mom when she got to share my  kids with her mother was fascinating.  My Nanny is an 85 year old widow…who loves life, loves her town, loves her family…would still be going to BINGO every week if her eyes allowed her too! I love this little woman…

And I loved getting our alone time with Nanny in too.  I’m not one for much one on one time with her…I hate that its awkward…I’m not good with small talk.  I wasn’t raised to sit around with older people and chit-chat. I wish I was. I wish I was able to sit and talk. I’m envious of my cousins who were raised so close to my grandparents and have a special bond with them!! So I was happy when she was able to just hang out with my kids…watch them build lego’s, listen to them chat about youtube and take selfies (yes Owen took a selfie with Nanny that I found on my phone when we got home) it was the best!  I love these times.  I don’t want my kids to be like me. I want them to be comfortable with their grandparents and great-grandparents!! Seeing Nanny interacting with my kids was heartwaming…and THIS is why we come to Ireland…and I’m going to soak it all up as long as I can. 

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And evenings down in Irishtown are my favorite! Listening to the stories told of the past make me feel good inside.

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Owen took these pictures…more that I found later…and for some reason I TOTALLY love them. Even the one with our heads cut off…I love seeing the hutch with Nanny’s “treasures”.

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One of my favorite nights this trip was when one random evening I landed into Irishtown with Maggie…and it was my mom, all my aunts and Nanny…all hanging out a few days before Xmas.

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I knew I’m totally related to my grandmother when she said one evening “ice cream is the most lovely thing ever!” 
Nanny…I couldn’t agree more!

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Thursday, January 14, 2016

Adjusting

When people hear about my trips to Ireland they always tell me how “lucky” I am that I get to go there so often.  I’ve come to realize its just part of our norm.  We are very grateful to get to see this part of the world but we don’t really see what others see.  When we go to Ireland we land in Dublin, drive 3 hours to the west coast and then usually stay pretty close to our small town for the duration of our trip.  When we visit in the summers and weather permits (summer doesn’t mean its nice weather) we try and go out on day trips to see other parts of the country but that doesn’t always happen.  As the kids grow thats our goal, to see more of Ireland than just Foxford! haha   But for now our trips are for family time. I want my kids to have relationships with their great-grandmother, they great aunts, lots of cousins, friends and of course spending time with Nana and Granda on this side of the world as well.

Some people drive to Pasadena to see their grandma…I just have to fly to Ireland to see mine.

Our mornings in Firestone Cottage (the name of my parents address/house) were nice.  I was usually allowed to get some extra sleep since Maggie was up every 2 hours almost the whole trip during all times of the day and night.  My Mom and Dad would feed the big kids for us.  And then Bernie would cook up a WONDERFUL Irish fry for breakfast when we got up.  Its Rashers, Sausages, Fried Eggs, Beans, Toast, Fried Potatoes…..yuuuummmmm. Delicious. 

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I’m extremely close with my Irish family…the distance between us isn’t an issue.  And with the evolution of the internet and facetiming we are able to keep in contact weekly if not more!  Its pretty cool!!

And as you know my kids are the only ones in my side of the family.  They have 2 real first cousins on Yosh’s side (Bailey and Peyton) and none on my side. But you would never know they lack in the cousin department.  My first cousin’s kids have taken on the role of “cousins” to my kids (yes they are technically 2nd cousins so thats ok!). But it was pretty awesome to watch all the kids play, bond and learn to love each other.

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And seeing my cousins love my babies is something magical as well!  You know when some people love your kids because they “have” to opposed to those that genuinely love them just because?!?  My cousin Alan is a baby-man. whenever he could get his hands on Maggie he was content just holding her. And I loved seeing that. And his wifey too…seemed pretty happy to have a little baby around the place!

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But days inside at my cousins house (which is about 100yds away from my parents) were nice.  We could walk to Alan’s from my parents house…
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where most days were spent around this fireplace…kids playing, us chatting…watching the pissing rain outside.

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We did get a few trips to the park in…which is almost unbearable because of how cold it is! 
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But my kids did a whole lot of this over the course of the 3 weeks too! One house, 1 tv and 6 people that want to watch different things…yeah…thank god for ipads!

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Tuesday, January 12, 2016

The Trip of a Lifetime

Oh man. I have REALLY missed blogging!! I didn’t bring my laptop with me to Ireland, which I was nervous was a total mistake since its hard to find time to sit down and write while at home with 3 needy little humans! haha  And it WAS a mistake….being that I haven’t touched my blog since November!
  Now we have been home from Ireland for over 2 weeks and still not a single post about our trip, Christmas, New Years, etc. etc.  I hate getting behind on posting…I start to forget all the little stories that I’d want to write about so I remember forever.  Then it seems so long ago that we were even IN Ireland I don’t know where to start…or how to start.

SO…I’ll just start from the beginning.

We changed up our usual departure routine this time.  Traveling with 3 small kids makes you thoroughly think everything through.  Our flight was at 8am on the 16th.  I figured we’d have to wake up SUPER early to beat the LA traffic and get checked in on time (didn’t want to miss our flight like we did in 2014).  So we opted to stay the night in the Marriott Hotel thats basically attached to LAX and just shuttle it to our terminal.  It was def a genius idea.  The hotel also has a service that allowed us to keep our car there for the 3 weeks we were away.  Leaving at night was also kinda nice because we weren’t rushing out the door for anything…actually we had to turn around twice for things we’d forgotten.  If we’d left in the morning, that wouldn’t have happened.  We showered and pj’d the kids and loaded up the car.  It was a sight to be seen though…we had LOTS of sh*t with us.  4 suitcases, 4 carry-ons, Yoshs backpack, Maggie’s diaper bag, My purse, double stroller, infant car seat and a partridge in a pear tree. haha

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Don’t judge Ella’s headband…she loves it! haha

Our flights were great!  I’m always nervous about check-in, making sure our bags are under the required weight, getting through security without having an anxiety attack and keeping the kids happy the whole way.  Thankfully my little travelers made it easy!! No hassle.
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Thankfully all 3 of our kids are GREAT travelers! Especially when each one has their own TV on the back of the chair in front of them.  They just sat and watched movies, shows and ate the whole flight (both flights actually!).  And Maggie did great too!!

When we got off the plane in JFK we waited and deboarded last.  We weren’t in any rush, we had a 3.5 hour layover.  We were waiting for our stroller to come up from being checked at the gate when I realized that Jamie Foxx…yes THE Jamie Foxx was also waiting  for something as well.  I mentioned it under my breathe to Yosh.  Jamie was waiting for his car to come onto the tarmac to pick him up…he’s so famous he doesn’t have to walk through the airport!!!
Anyway…Ella had no clue who he was but she was excited to show him her suitcase.  She told him that her “wheels wight up!”…and so Jamie fell into the cute little Ella spell and was chatting it up with her about suitcases and how cool her’s was compared to his!  Yosh was getting totally frazzled trying to get the stroller set up and was kinda struggling. So he made a joke of it and asked Jamie if he wanted to help out and how amazing it was to travel with 3 kids.  Jamie mentioned that he had been there done that with his 2 daughters.  Of course I had to mention that I saw him and his daughters on The Ellen Show earlier that week and how gorgeous they were.  He was a very humble nice man!!

Anyway…Yosh asked if we could get a picture with him and he said of course.  Owen and Ella weren’t eager to jump into ANOTHER picture (if they only knew that this picture was cooler than any other picture they have ever taken!!).  But Jamie took my phone and set up the whole selfie.  He got down on one knee and said “Ok…we are going to do a serious face!”
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“Ok now we are gonna do a shocked face!”
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“Ok now…look away!!”
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haha I was shaking from being so star struck!! He was the nicest man ever~

After our pics he walked up the hallway to meet a female (maybe his sister?!?) and grabbed her suitcase for her.  Ella was walking down the same hallway and he started messing with her and not letting her get by.  So Yosh said “Get him Ella!”….and what does our daughter do??  She tries to kick Jamie Foxx in the shin! Yes. Oh dear.  That will be a fun story to tell her when she is grown up!

On take off from JFK Owen was pumped trying to see the Status of Liberty! He had learned all about her in the 1st grade so he was sad that the cloud coverage was so thick!

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In JFK we ate dinner and camped out. The kids got to stretch out and play a bit.  Maggie got to stretch out and poop a few times!  And yes..the difference between baby #1 and baby #3…she is laying on the floor of an airport! On a clean blanket of course…but she had to get some stretching time too. It hard work to keep an infant in your arms for a whole 5.5 hour flight…and know that I was going to have to carry her for the next flight too!

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But the flights there weren’t bad at all!!  And seeing my parents at Dublin airport to greet us was one of the best feelings ever. I had just seen mom 2 weeks prior but it was different when we hugged at the airport that day.  We got our rental car and headed west to Foxford. 

No sooner after walking into the door of my parents new home the doorbell started…everyone was very excited to meet little Maggie.  And the 24 hour travel day made it all worth it when I saw my grandmother holding the youngest of the family…they finally got to meet!  And Nana was so excited to get to show her off too!

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The next few days in Ireland we tried to get ourselves settled and adjusted.  Being 8 hours ahead time wise is hard on kids…and even harder on adults.  But we managed.  The weather was terribly cold but whenever we could we’d get outside for a bit.

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Firestone Cottage, Foxford.

So…let the 3 weeks of madness begin…